On Spontaneous Fucking.
I find spontaneity to be one of the most thrilling aspects of BDSM. Once I have a girl under my hand, she knows I will not hesitate to take her wherever and whenever I please. She trusts I will keep her safe and maintain a modicum of discretion (smiles) - but beyond that - she is never quite sure when (and how) I might sate myself.
This kind of dynamic sexual tension can be incredibly erotic. And it can provide enormous catharsis on both sides of the D/s coin. If she comes to me and looks incredibly desirable or presents her body in a particularly exotic fashion - I might forego dinner plans or a more involved encounter. I might simply strip her - position her - and fuck her.
Down and dirty. Hard. Deep and full. Fast and furious. With animal hunger.
My girl is immediately aroused by this kind of behavior. She feels 100% woman, completely desired, and she gets incredibly aroused by being taken in this fashion. The net result - after an amazing conclusion - is a much more intimate feeling of being bonded in all ways. As the panting and the pounding hearts subside, there is an amazing sense of euphoria, bliss, and renewal.
Is this any less a dance of Dominance and submission?
On the contrary, it IS the dance….
Why am I not dancing now?
I cannot wait for this. I love the idea of not knowing when Sir will want it and that he could spring it on me at any time. The thought alone makes me crazy…in a good way.
Reblogged from distortedretina-deactivated2012